Bobbyisms: Serving up a Christmas tradition
Let's not talk about it like it's a bad thing, though; I could not be more pleased that the break is finally here, and I'm sure that if you've been as busy in your program as I have in mine, then this break feels long overdue. I've put in more all-nighters in the last couple weeks than I have all year, and I'm all wound up, just waiting to relax.
And that's going to be the hugest
part, the part you need to make sure
you do, too. I know that for a lot of
people the Christmas break doesn't
mean they get to shut down, but I
really recommend making some
time just for you so that you can
really unwind. Make it a new tradition,
even — not like this isn't the
perfect time of year to do so.
I used to have this one tradition,
when I was a kid: every year, my
mom would put on this old
Christmas record by Kenny Rogers
and Dolly Parton — called Once
Upon A Christmas — and make me
sing one of the album's duets with
her. I can remember I wasn't crazy
about country music, but this was
all Christmas music, so there was
no big deal.
At least once a year, the record
would come out and I would be a
mini-Kenny, singing The Greatest
Gift or something similar. Until I
was a teenager and I didn't want to
anymore, that is, which she eventually
accepted. A few years ago,
though, I was spending Christmas
alone, and got this urge to hear the
record again —I found it online,
available legally, though I now
have no idea where that was.
The point is tradition is a powerful
thing; like a magnetic force
screwing up a compass, that feeling
of tradition can go a long way
to making your surroundings feel
like home. So whether you're
going back home for Christmas or
stuck in London, separated from or
smothered by loved ones, you
should really try just chilling out in
your room alone for as least as long
as it takes to listen to one full
album of your choosing. Make this
a new tradition, I'd wager you'll
find yourself much more relaxed
when you come back in a month.
Some suggested chill listening:
Carol King's Tapestry, Death Cab
For Cutie's The Photo Album, Iron
and Wine's The Shepherd's Dog,
The Junior Varsity's Wide Eyed,
Silverchair's Diorama.