Ask the Sex Doc: Wishing for right-sized wang
Dear Sex Doc;
I read your comments about penis size to Determined to Have the Perfect Size. I get what you're saying… enjoy the hand you've been dealt. But, if someone has a really small penis (I mean a couple of inches) isn't there a surgery they can have to make it bigger? P.S. This isn't about me. I've got big one.
‘Big' One-incher@ Fanshawe
Dear ‘Big' One-incher @ Fanshawe;
So your ‘friend' has a small one? Okay, so I didn't mention surgery to Determined to Have the Perfect Size because penis surgery is the last resort in this situation.
Guys with small wangs can have wonderfully enjoyable sex lives and I wanted him to know this.
However, as you mentioned ‘Big' One-incher, there are surgeries available in Canada to increase the length of a guy's member.
Experts say that only men with a limp one less than 1.6 inches and a hard one three inches or less, should consider surgery.
The most common dick surgery in our country is called penile lengthening surgery. The doctor will cut the penis's internal suspensory ligament that will provide new length on the outside. Existing skin from the penis or the pubic area will be used for the new growth.
The average dick growth varies, but is usually between half-an-inch and two inches. However, since the suspensory ligament gets cut, the guys hard-on will no longer stand at attention, but stick straight out or point down to the floor.
So if you are severely distraught with the size of your manhood, surgery is always a possibility. But remember, adding an inch or two will most likely not make you feel any better about yourself. An individual's low self-esteem won't be cured by a little pee-pee pick-me-up.
And if this is an issue for you, don't search for a dick ‘expert' online. You might just end up with minced meat if you do. Consult your family doctor or urologist for a trusted expert in this area.
Dear Sex Doc;
My boyfriend says I suck at giving head. What can I do to improve my technique?
Toothy Tina @ BCIT
Dear Toothy Tina @ BCIT;
Okay, the first thing you've got to stop doing is raking your teeth over your guy's tool. It really isn't tube steak, so you don't need to chew it.
Ladies, the skin down there is sensitive, especially the skin on the head of the penis. So, don't be giving your guys a molar massage.
If you want your mouth to be one of his favourite sites to park his Pinto, you'd better ASK how he likes his stick shift to be polished. All guys are different so you'll never know until you ask.
One way to figure out his erotic preferences is to watch the way he beats his meat. If he's a Speedy Gonzales you'd better quicken your pace. Some dudes do it slow, some like light pressure, hard grip, just around the top, or not at all around the knob. His actions will show you exactly how he wants to be touched and sucked.
But Toothy Tina, I'll give you and your sisters some general tips that will curl your dude's toes in orgasmic delight.
First, you really don't need to learn to deep throat, however, opening your throat can open many doors. But you'd better be a quick learner because gagging, choking, or barfing on your dude's dick isn't sexy at all.
The best technique would be to use the ol' mouth-hand combo. Stroke the penis while sucking his knob. Experiment with different techniques. He'll be moaning and groaning when you find the right move.
And Toothy Tina, it ain't all about sucking. Lick and kiss his dick from top to bottom. The penis place you just can't miss is his frenulum. This is the area on the underside of the penis where the shaft meets the knob. Flick your tongue over this hot spot and watch your guy flinch.
Most guys like having their nuts played with when they're getting head. And most really enjoy having their berries gently pushed down while you service them.
A lot of guys like having their perineum (chouda) rubbed during oral. The more adventurous like having their rosebuds or even prostates stimulated while they tickle your tonsils.
And ladies, your spit doesn't make the best lube. So unless you're extra phlegmy, you'd better use a flavoured lube to do the trick. O'My has wonderful flavours like Pina Colada and Kiwi-Strawberry.
And remember, lots of STIs are transmitted orally. So you'd better wrap his willy before you do something silly.
Dr. Brian Parker is a clinical sexologist and sex educator and the co-creator of two sexual intimacy board games “Embrace” and “Pillow Talk.” The games are available on his website, www.foreverpleasure.com which features original erotic art, high-end sensual products and adult sex education.
This column is made possible by the generous support of O'My Natural Lubricants. If you have a sexual question you want answered in the ‘Ask the Sex Doc' column please email drbrian@foreverpleasure.com and watch for his response in this paper.
I read your comments about penis size to Determined to Have the Perfect Size. I get what you're saying… enjoy the hand you've been dealt. But, if someone has a really small penis (I mean a couple of inches) isn't there a surgery they can have to make it bigger? P.S. This isn't about me. I've got big one.
‘Big' One-incher@ Fanshawe
Dear ‘Big' One-incher @ Fanshawe;
So your ‘friend' has a small one? Okay, so I didn't mention surgery to Determined to Have the Perfect Size because penis surgery is the last resort in this situation.
Guys with small wangs can have wonderfully enjoyable sex lives and I wanted him to know this.
However, as you mentioned ‘Big' One-incher, there are surgeries available in Canada to increase the length of a guy's member.
Experts say that only men with a limp one less than 1.6 inches and a hard one three inches or less, should consider surgery.
The most common dick surgery in our country is called penile lengthening surgery. The doctor will cut the penis's internal suspensory ligament that will provide new length on the outside. Existing skin from the penis or the pubic area will be used for the new growth.
The average dick growth varies, but is usually between half-an-inch and two inches. However, since the suspensory ligament gets cut, the guys hard-on will no longer stand at attention, but stick straight out or point down to the floor.
So if you are severely distraught with the size of your manhood, surgery is always a possibility. But remember, adding an inch or two will most likely not make you feel any better about yourself. An individual's low self-esteem won't be cured by a little pee-pee pick-me-up.
And if this is an issue for you, don't search for a dick ‘expert' online. You might just end up with minced meat if you do. Consult your family doctor or urologist for a trusted expert in this area.
Dear Sex Doc;
My boyfriend says I suck at giving head. What can I do to improve my technique?
Toothy Tina @ BCIT
Dear Toothy Tina @ BCIT;
Okay, the first thing you've got to stop doing is raking your teeth over your guy's tool. It really isn't tube steak, so you don't need to chew it.
Ladies, the skin down there is sensitive, especially the skin on the head of the penis. So, don't be giving your guys a molar massage.
If you want your mouth to be one of his favourite sites to park his Pinto, you'd better ASK how he likes his stick shift to be polished. All guys are different so you'll never know until you ask.
One way to figure out his erotic preferences is to watch the way he beats his meat. If he's a Speedy Gonzales you'd better quicken your pace. Some dudes do it slow, some like light pressure, hard grip, just around the top, or not at all around the knob. His actions will show you exactly how he wants to be touched and sucked.
But Toothy Tina, I'll give you and your sisters some general tips that will curl your dude's toes in orgasmic delight.
First, you really don't need to learn to deep throat, however, opening your throat can open many doors. But you'd better be a quick learner because gagging, choking, or barfing on your dude's dick isn't sexy at all.
The best technique would be to use the ol' mouth-hand combo. Stroke the penis while sucking his knob. Experiment with different techniques. He'll be moaning and groaning when you find the right move.
And Toothy Tina, it ain't all about sucking. Lick and kiss his dick from top to bottom. The penis place you just can't miss is his frenulum. This is the area on the underside of the penis where the shaft meets the knob. Flick your tongue over this hot spot and watch your guy flinch.
Most guys like having their nuts played with when they're getting head. And most really enjoy having their berries gently pushed down while you service them.
A lot of guys like having their perineum (chouda) rubbed during oral. The more adventurous like having their rosebuds or even prostates stimulated while they tickle your tonsils.
And ladies, your spit doesn't make the best lube. So unless you're extra phlegmy, you'd better use a flavoured lube to do the trick. O'My has wonderful flavours like Pina Colada and Kiwi-Strawberry.
And remember, lots of STIs are transmitted orally. So you'd better wrap his willy before you do something silly.
Dr. Brian Parker is a clinical sexologist and sex educator and the co-creator of two sexual intimacy board games “Embrace” and “Pillow Talk.” The games are available on his website, www.foreverpleasure.com which features original erotic art, high-end sensual products and adult sex education.
This column is made possible by the generous support of O'My Natural Lubricants. If you have a sexual question you want answered in the ‘Ask the Sex Doc' column please email drbrian@foreverpleasure.com and watch for his response in this paper.
