Ask the Sex Doc: Student wants pumped-up penis
Dear Sex Doc;
I'm in my fourth year [at] the university, but I couldn't keep any relationship with a girl for more than four weeks. The last girl I had told [me] that she loved me, but [said my] wood is too small for her. So, Is there any advisable pills that I can take to increase the size of my wood?
Moreso, the size of my wood makes me feel shy anytime I want to perform. The size is even twice below average. So, I'm thinking that it's the size of my wood that's responsible for the many break-ups. Please your advice is needed.
Determined to Have the Perfect Size @ UNBSJ
Dear Determined to Have the Perfect Size @ UNBSJ;
You know, after receiving a minimum of five penis enlargement emails per day, I'm starting to think it might be time for a little fat injection down there too. And, I don't think I'm alone.
Lots of guys wish they had a little more junk in their trunk, but it really isn't necessary. A few weeks back I mentioned that the average erect penis size is five to seven inches. If you're a little smaller, it really isn't a deal breaker.
It scares me when I hear about guys feeling they need a foot long to satisfy their partner. When it comes to penis-vagina sex, this certainly isn't the case. In fact Determined to Have the Perfect Size, after you learn a little bit more about the sexual anatomy and physiology of girls, you might be glad you're on the smaller side.
There are a couple of girl hot spots that don't require a dick the size of a forearm for maximum stimulation. The clitoris is external and likes quick movements like that from a fast moving tongue, finger, or vibrator.
A huge-wang whacking against the clit is certainly not going to get a girl off. And since most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation, a big one is not necessary.
And, just like guys who have dicks that vary widely in length, so do girl's vaginal canals. Determined to Have the Perfect Size, did you know that the average vaginal canal is about six inches deep?
So if you dream of having a six-and-a-half incher, that half-inch will be wasted on most of the girls you sleep with.
And, if your boat were bigger than her canal, you'd hit her cervix. Almost all women find this irritating and painful. That's probably not the best sensation to give someone you love.
Further, the first two inches of a girl's vagina is the most sensitive. That's where all the nerve endings are. The last four inches have barely any nerve endings. Have you ever heard the expression ‘the lights are on, but nobody is home?'
Another womanly hot spot is her G-Spot. If you've paid attention to my other articles you already know that this area can be anywhere from the top of the vaginal opening to about two inches back. It's also a little to the left. Once again, you'd only need a two incher to do the trick.
When it comes to oral, a donkey dink is not ideal either. Have you ever had lock-jaw? The bigger the wang the harder it is for someone to perform oral sex on them. And, I've heard of many people gagging on some monster. I know a few guys whose partner has even threw-up on their Johnson cause it tickled their partner's throat. That sucks too!
And, if you ever meet a girl who lets you slip in her back door, I bet she'll be ecstatic you have a little guy.
Research actually shows that penis size does not affect a partner's sexual satisfaction. In fact, I know plenty of women who prefer guys your size. One of my friends (who believe me, has seen dicks in all shapes and sizes) had the best sex of her life with a guy much smaller than average.
She said he was like the Duracell bunny. He just kept going and going, and for girls, that ain't such a bad thing.
But Determined to Have the Perfect Size, you will undoubtedly run into a size queen at some point in your life. They might think they look nicer aesthetically or they may prefer the feeling of fullness a big one provides.
There are no lotions, potions, or pills that will add an extra inch or two. These are actually all scams and none of these have ever been scientifically proven to promote growth down there.
And, I wouldn't recommend hanging a weight from your willy either. That could cause scar tissue damage and leave you with a boomerang shaped dick.
I highly doubt all your ex-girlfriends prefer hung guys. If girls continuously kick you to the curb you might want to look at your skills as a partner rather than your skills as a lover.
Sure sex is important, but most college girls would prefer to date a nice guy who is mediocre in the sack than an asshole who has all the right moves.
So Determined to Have the Perfect Size, I hope all this helps you realize there is no ‘perfect' penis size. Love yourself, dick and all, and don't be shy about its size. If you do, I bet the girls will be running towards you, not away from you.
Dr. Brian Parker is a clinical sexologist and sex educator and the co-creator of two sexual intimacy board games “Embrace” and “Pillow Talk.” The games are available on his website, www.foreverpleasure.com which features original erotic art, high-end sensual products and adult sex education.
This column is made possible by the generous support of O'My Natural Lubricants. If you have a sexual question you want answered in the ‘Ask the Sex Doc' column please email drbrian@foreverpleasure.com and watch for his response in this paper.
I'm in my fourth year [at] the university, but I couldn't keep any relationship with a girl for more than four weeks. The last girl I had told [me] that she loved me, but [said my] wood is too small for her. So, Is there any advisable pills that I can take to increase the size of my wood?
Moreso, the size of my wood makes me feel shy anytime I want to perform. The size is even twice below average. So, I'm thinking that it's the size of my wood that's responsible for the many break-ups. Please your advice is needed.
Determined to Have the Perfect Size @ UNBSJ
Dear Determined to Have the Perfect Size @ UNBSJ;
You know, after receiving a minimum of five penis enlargement emails per day, I'm starting to think it might be time for a little fat injection down there too. And, I don't think I'm alone.
Lots of guys wish they had a little more junk in their trunk, but it really isn't necessary. A few weeks back I mentioned that the average erect penis size is five to seven inches. If you're a little smaller, it really isn't a deal breaker.
It scares me when I hear about guys feeling they need a foot long to satisfy their partner. When it comes to penis-vagina sex, this certainly isn't the case. In fact Determined to Have the Perfect Size, after you learn a little bit more about the sexual anatomy and physiology of girls, you might be glad you're on the smaller side.
There are a couple of girl hot spots that don't require a dick the size of a forearm for maximum stimulation. The clitoris is external and likes quick movements like that from a fast moving tongue, finger, or vibrator.
A huge-wang whacking against the clit is certainly not going to get a girl off. And since most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation, a big one is not necessary.
And, just like guys who have dicks that vary widely in length, so do girl's vaginal canals. Determined to Have the Perfect Size, did you know that the average vaginal canal is about six inches deep?
So if you dream of having a six-and-a-half incher, that half-inch will be wasted on most of the girls you sleep with.
And, if your boat were bigger than her canal, you'd hit her cervix. Almost all women find this irritating and painful. That's probably not the best sensation to give someone you love.
Further, the first two inches of a girl's vagina is the most sensitive. That's where all the nerve endings are. The last four inches have barely any nerve endings. Have you ever heard the expression ‘the lights are on, but nobody is home?'
Another womanly hot spot is her G-Spot. If you've paid attention to my other articles you already know that this area can be anywhere from the top of the vaginal opening to about two inches back. It's also a little to the left. Once again, you'd only need a two incher to do the trick.
When it comes to oral, a donkey dink is not ideal either. Have you ever had lock-jaw? The bigger the wang the harder it is for someone to perform oral sex on them. And, I've heard of many people gagging on some monster. I know a few guys whose partner has even threw-up on their Johnson cause it tickled their partner's throat. That sucks too!
And, if you ever meet a girl who lets you slip in her back door, I bet she'll be ecstatic you have a little guy.
Research actually shows that penis size does not affect a partner's sexual satisfaction. In fact, I know plenty of women who prefer guys your size. One of my friends (who believe me, has seen dicks in all shapes and sizes) had the best sex of her life with a guy much smaller than average.
She said he was like the Duracell bunny. He just kept going and going, and for girls, that ain't such a bad thing.
But Determined to Have the Perfect Size, you will undoubtedly run into a size queen at some point in your life. They might think they look nicer aesthetically or they may prefer the feeling of fullness a big one provides.
There are no lotions, potions, or pills that will add an extra inch or two. These are actually all scams and none of these have ever been scientifically proven to promote growth down there.
And, I wouldn't recommend hanging a weight from your willy either. That could cause scar tissue damage and leave you with a boomerang shaped dick.
I highly doubt all your ex-girlfriends prefer hung guys. If girls continuously kick you to the curb you might want to look at your skills as a partner rather than your skills as a lover.
Sure sex is important, but most college girls would prefer to date a nice guy who is mediocre in the sack than an asshole who has all the right moves.
So Determined to Have the Perfect Size, I hope all this helps you realize there is no ‘perfect' penis size. Love yourself, dick and all, and don't be shy about its size. If you do, I bet the girls will be running towards you, not away from you.
Dr. Brian Parker is a clinical sexologist and sex educator and the co-creator of two sexual intimacy board games “Embrace” and “Pillow Talk.” The games are available on his website, www.foreverpleasure.com which features original erotic art, high-end sensual products and adult sex education.
This column is made possible by the generous support of O'My Natural Lubricants. If you have a sexual question you want answered in the ‘Ask the Sex Doc' column please email drbrian@foreverpleasure.com and watch for his response in this paper.
